Thanks for your advice everyone. The last time I left, I didn't have a place to live, stayed in different motels, then wound up sleeping in my car a couple of nights with my cats. He felt sorry for me and asked me back. I have to find a place I can afford with my cats, before I move out again, wish me luck, I need it. BTW I broke my tibia, badly, a little over a year ago, so I'm still not in the best of shape.

My advice? Stay away from men who drink. There's no future in people like that.

You know the song " You gotta move you can't win all the time."

Look down. See those two things attached to your legs? They're called feet. They're used to move you from one place to the next. Might I suggest you use these appendages to relocate yourself to another location far away from this person.... permanently.

Getting out of a relationship is awfully difficult often. I won't ask why you stay or say get out. I will say that this situation is unhealthy. It would most likely help to see a pro.

RUN