For those of you following me. My divorce was final on the 14th.
Don't know if any of you were planning on waiting till then to break the ice. But as always I'm still open to having friends. For far too long I isolated myself for the benefit of my marriage and to some degree trying to hang tough hoping things would get better then things went south in a way that put myself and the kiddos in danger and add a result the relationship became irreparable.
Now that I'm legally single again, I'm open to something more long term I can dedicate myself to.
Ask away ladies. I'm an open book.
Don't do it...heal first
The "psych" suggestion is a month for every year in a relationship before a new serious one.
I left at the end of July in 2017 and have been celibate since. Wether I am healed completely is a variable answer.
I would like to think that I have grieved and come to acceptance that I may never find the right one. I'll always hold out hope that there is someone out there for me. Just keeping up the search one friend at a time. I don't do enemies. Life's too short.