I'm new here. I am pretty beat up and limited health wise for a 30 year old. I'm deaf, have joint issues, poor vision, and all kinds of other goody side effects from cancer (hodgkins lymphoma) and treatments (chemo, radiation, and stem cell) 3 times. I'm just getting out of my 3rd relationship (this one online) as of a couple weeks ago after a year and a half and came across this site, and thought I'd give it a shot and see if there are any likeminded women who might be interested in a beat up but extremely loving and bluntly honest guy. I'm an open book. I am very shy and suffer anxiety. I'm only a long term sort, no hook-ups for me. Faithfulness is a requirement. If the woman is bi I wouldn't mind if she brought in a gf to make it a 3 person committed relationship (I don't think a woman should have to choose in regards to partners sex). Not really interested in kids. I'm mostly laid back. I prefer gaming, movies, crabbing, clamming, swimming, etc. I hate smoking, its hell on the lungs. 420 is okay in moderation. Science and logic based is a must, not interested in someone who believes in things from goop and other quack stuff. NFL football fan is a plus. Someone who can discuss and debate without it being a fight is a big plus. Must be able to be real, I'm not interested in another online only relationship. Ages 18-38 please.