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What is your favorite regret?

CommonHuman 7 Feb 27
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Not to be stereotypical of men but: Remaining faithful to my high school sweetheart in my first year of college. We ended breaking up, as I knew we would, and I should have broken it off way earlier, but I sometimes still play the what if game with a girl I turned down in that period.

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Not getting laid when I could

bobwjr Level 10 Apr 25, 2019
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Regrets are negative. I don't think people have a favorite negative experience.

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Not tithing to my savings the way I tithed to the church for so many years........

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1st marriage.

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wait.... people have "favorite" regrets?

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Being closed off to being loved.

You can change that.

I am working on it.

@CaroleKay I'm glad to hear that. I don't know you well, but I do know you are smart, funny, talented, feisty, empathetic, and pretty. That is a lot of really good stuff.

@Sticks48 Xoxo. ❤

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My favorite regret... the man who came into my life unexpectedly at a time of personal transition. I loved him, a married man. Taught me more than I ever imagined, about my self-worth, my value... and my beauty! Fuck him! lol

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Regrets, no. Disappointments, yes.

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CarolinaGirl60 reminded me... my first wife!

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When I was working on my first college degree one of the professors told me to get a doctorate. I then got second bachelors.

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Favorite regret? Isn't that an oxymoron?

To answer: Long ago I had a choice:

1: Devote all resources to try to fix an emotionally broken and significantly older woman or

2: Accept and dedicate resources into growing a relationship with a woman of my age and mindset. (the first woman's best friend / co worker. We really got along great.

The older woman had great needs so I chose her and for just short of a decade, worked to help her cope with significant emotional baggage. My life would be significantly different now had I chosen the younger woman.

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Favorite regret? First husband. At least I got kids to keep!

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