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What is the most important trait you want in a lover?

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Millie 6 Mar 1
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Show up.

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Honesty. You can overcome anything else as long as you trust each other

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A freak.

Duke Level 8 Mar 2, 2018
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Lol

@Blindbird Just answering honestly.. LOL

@Duke fair enough
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Dan Savage coined the acronym GGG. Good, giving, game. A good, giving lover who is game for almost anything. I go with that. 🙂

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Kindness

oooops, Kindness is for partner, if lover but not partner I would say uninhibited, insatiable you get the picture.

I don't see why kindness would not be a charachteristic of a lover. If it is just boiled down to the sexual act may as well get a blow up doll

@btroje I think the lack of kindness would relegate someone to the casual lover category, unless she is actually unkind, then she is gone. But for partner, kindness is first and foremost, even before honesty, which is also essential in a partner.
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Playful kindness.

Absolutely! We can all use more of that in our lives - lover or otherwise.

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Breathing.

Lol. Necrophilia does look bad on ones record.

LOL

@Blindbird Fair enough , but at least still warm

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An understandung that, as a parent, she won't be the center of my universe. That position is already double booked by my kids.

good call.
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A Heart of Gold

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I'm gonna go with existing! 😀

(I mean assuming existence is a trait.)

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Speaking as someone who has completely given up, I would have to say remembering to take the trash and recycling out on Thursday morning.

@ScienceBiker Lol! No!
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Laughter. Easy peasy.

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Patience.

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empathy

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Honesty, gotta find a girl that will be honest no matter what the topic is.

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Humor -- in all of its sentient, salacious, and sensual glory

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Oh! This is about only sex and not relationships? Oh! That's easy! The ability to follow simple instructions.

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Gender!

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no hang ups about there body and open about likes and dislikes

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A lover who is not afftaid to let you know what she wants and is willong to try anything as long as it don't hurt

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i thought you said lover, not partner

oh yeah, I best change my answer now.

why do the answers seem to be about partners ie in general life rather than as a lover ie what you want from sex I wonder?

@LeighShelton says a lot. Many of us want a partner not just a wham bam thank you ma'am

I do @LadyAlyxandrea but the question is definitely asking about lovers which doesn't mean wham bam especially or say mean a heart of gold.a lover can be a one night stand or someone you just have sex with or the part of your relationship that is the sex.
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Enthusiasm

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Compassion

Marz Level 7 Mar 2, 2018
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Honesty and Friendship. Someone who would drop what they were doing to comfort you in your time of need.

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A willingness to expand their sexual envelope.

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Animal attraction between us. Bodies without mind control. Let's see that cat in the bag. Without that spark at the touch of the flesh. I lose interest quick. We are talking lover not partner.

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