I laughed entirely too much at this post. Quite real. I've just about given up on those dating apps. All the men want to move to be with me, and I'm evidently the love of their life. (In 2.3 days) Many appear to be stationed overseas. I don't know really know if that's real or if its an Iranian. Seems fake. The guys profiles get taken down after I give them my email. Another indication of fake. I've met a couple of guys. Not really clicking with them.

Of course I'm deeply liberal in the midst of a very RED state. Also, Trump voters are a big definate "NO GO." They tend to have at least one of his horrific attributes. Example: MISOGYNIST Shoving their tongue down my throat at the car when I thought we were meeting for coffee.; RACISTS using the "n" word which just ugh or a downright BULLY.

Gosh, I do think I'll make my own post. I've gone on far too long.

Anyways, thanks for the chuckle.

For all those people who write "positive vibes only" on their descriptions.

Very interesting observation. I have never used either one. I figured you would have tons of options considering your area.

You don’t meet people with those apps unless you go out and meet them and even then, sometimes they’re trying fit in the box they made for themselves in 240 characters so you probably didn’t really “meet them” at all..
Those apps have become sort of the appropriate place hit on someone though and ask them out. Meeting people in person it’s difficult bridge that gap and more often than not, they have a boyfriend. Used go out bars meet people but as I got older that Avenue got sadder and sadder.

I am over 60 and the only responses I get by the dozen are bimbos who are fakes, trying get or itunes cards or cards, or they fall in love with me in 2 days and want move where I am and let me for it. Did you know you can buy bus tickets and airline tickets with itunes card or card? After a couple dozen, the entertainment value disappeared and I went back playing cards.

Maybe I'm just old but the whole swipe left/right thing really creeps me out. There's something so demeaning about it. It reduces everyone down to a cute face pic and a few catch phrases. When I first heard about online dating I thought it would be great, because you get space to make you're own unique statement. You can say what you're really all about and what you're looking for. Get to know people from the inside first. Turns out the exact opposite is true. Write the most interesting, witty, honest profile possible, makes no difference. Look at a pic, swipe left or right. It also seems that as non-believers, we're truly a small minority. I think the best thing to do is just go out and get involved in activities that interest you. You know from the start that you have something in common with the people there, and if you don't meet anyone at least you've done something interesting and constructive.

I work downtown I meet so many beutiful women. Online I meet older overweight single moms with tons of demands. @ sur real and all the guys see some RSD videos on YouTube. I shit you not my pull rate is at about 90%.

I feel like I'm exactly where you are. In my area I can't find a single person on Bumble or Tinder where we can actually match up. I'm so bored with cookie cutter people, and that's all I can find on there that click that they like me. And I have no interest in them.

just rent a hooker occasionally.

I gave up on all of that kind of bull shit some time ago. Now I spend much more of my free time learning about things like science, higher math, physics, and am much better off for the time I spend. Youtube has some pretty interesting stuff.