I Asked 6 Homeless People "What is the Happiest Part of Your Day?"
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Even if you have reasons not to give money to the homeless, please consider this (scroll down to "Outcome" if you're short on time).
Dr. Robert Sapolsky gave of Stanford University always talk about mental illnesses in one of his lectures he said that most of those who you see on the street are mentally ill with schizophrenia.. most of those in death row have defected hippocampus.. we hardly know anything about the phases these people go through before the end up homeless looking the way they do
I see you're from Toronto.. so you probably know about Parkdale .. i saw since of them who get deteriorated right before your eyes
In Wenatchee, WA where I live, homeless shelters have a firm "no alcohol or drugs" rule that dissuades addicts. Often addicts cannot abide by these rules.
Also, our homeless shelters make people leave after breakfast at 8:30 am., letting them back inside at 4:00 p.m.
During cold winters, where can homeless folks go with restrooms and a waiting room? The library.
It's sad these homeless people feel happiest when people treat them with a crumb of kindness, or act like they are a human being, not a pile of rags.
I liked the article. It does make sense that a simple hello from some can make a person feel better.
We need to make the world a better place by talking to each other.
I do some work with the homeless and agree with everything here in this article. It’s all about recognising and responding to their humanity. We must never stop looking at them as fellow human beings, they all have individual stories and needs. It is sometimes easier and more comfortable for the rest of us to pretend we don’t see them, that way we don’t have to consider the deeper implications that our society isn’t working properly for every citizen, and why we need to find out why. I read that last year when Prince Harry married Meghan Markle in Windsor, the local council wanted to remove all the homeless to some shelter for the duration of the time that the media spotlight was on the town.....! I’m sure they never thought any further than just considering them to be a problem needing to be removed for a few days, in order to sanitise the streets of any detritus, prior to television beaming the wedding to an audience all around the world. That would have been seen as a stain on the character of Windsor, and the country....and all in the shadow of Royalty and Windsor Castle, the contrast would have shown us up. I bet you anything, these homeless people were not found permanent accommodation, or given any lasting help by the people who swept them away for a brief time......once it was all over, I’m sure they were let back onto the streets and are probably still being passed daily, whilst others look the other way.
Great input. Thanks!
@Athena Athena, homelessness is a cause I am quite passionate about. My favourite band are very socially conscious and have got involved in many humanitarian issues, especially their vocalist Morten Harket. They wrote and recorded this song to highlight the issue of homelessness, Lauren Savoy, the wife of one of the one who wrote it, Paul Waaktaar - Savoy, made the accompanying video. There’s Never A Forever Thing. - a-ha. I play it a lot, it’s just such a haunting video and song.
@Marionville
Wow. Those images were very powerful and I agree that both the video and the song are haunting.
Thank you so much for sharing it! I'm going to pass it along as well.
We do not have homeless people here in the country, at least not visible ones.We have lots of lonely people who come to the supermarket or the [post office to be with people from the community. They say hello and how are you and hope you will answer. I always do, although I do not remember him or her specifically. Parts of our conversation is always about whom we know in common - that is often enough to stir our memory. We talk, about us or the apple harvest or sometimes just the weather, but we talk. People want to be recognized and acknowledged, and that's true for me as well.
You don't have homeless people in America? You must live in an area where you are saved the sadness of seeing them regularly. When I travel to the US, I see them all the time.
You're right that there are many lonely people. Think of how much lonely people would be if we were all kinder to one another. A brief conversation with someone can make a person's day.
Feeling unseen is the worst poison.
I see. She said "in the country", not "in this country." That makes more sense! Thank you.
Think of the US, with all its big cities; big towns and small towns, skyscrapers, waterfronts, highways, bridges and country roads. Then add free healthcare and a lot of people saying "sorry" and you have Canada.
Have you ever been to Canada? I live in a city much like NY or Chicago.
@josh_is_exciting
She meant rural. I am Canadian. Not sure what you meant by in Canada we say "the country" other than referring the rural. Unless of course you are referring your own country. As in "our country".
Something anyone can do for a homeless person: As you pass by, look them in the eye and say hello, or at least nod. The worst part of homelessness (and often, poverty even if housed) is the denial of one's humanity.
It is free, and it always works.
Beautifully said. Thank you.
That is so true. We had a homelessness course in uni and some students went out pretending to be homeless. And what they reported was that the dehumanization and being treated like lepers or ignored was probably the worst part of it all.