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Anyone else ever wonder what percentage of "religious" people are simply faking it to fit in?

AgnoLulu 5 Mar 23
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How many "Lip service" Muslims are there in the middle east and North Africa?

Wager less than lip service Christians or Catholics.

Well, and in their case it can be a matter of life and death. When you are forced to "believe" something, is there ever a way to know if it's true belief?

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While it's "unknowable" statistically speaking, you have to imagine that it's fairly common. Even those who harbour doubts but have no one to talk to.

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I do. But I'd want to differentiate between those who know they don't believe and those who have never really thought about it.

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Too damned many.
Cowards.

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I think almost all of them fake it to some extent. It's almost like a contest for them to be holier-than-thou, or most "persecuted". However, I suspect that a significant portion of Congress are agnostic or atheist. Given their level of education and generally higher than average intelligence, it is probably a statistical certainty that the ratio of nonbelievers to believers is higher in Congress.

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That is an interesting question and I am inclined to think that it is not so much a matter of fitting in but more a matter of belonging to some group. I think it was the late Dr Thomas Szasz who said: "In most people the desire to belong is greater than the desire to understand, hence the popularity of religions and cults and the lack of the role of reason in human affairs".

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nope. i never wondered. i never met anyone who was faking it then again, i was raised in a secular jewish household. i didn't hang out with a religious gang (of any religion). so it never occurred to me to wonder.

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But have you ever faked it? Just to fit in or not alienate family, etc...?

@AgnoLulu no, i had no reason to fake anything. once i realized there were no gods, if anyone had asked i'd have said so. no one asked. we never went to temple except for bar/bat mitzvahs and weddings. there was nothing to fake. i also never DID fit in, in so many other ways; that would've been a weird way to fit in, since a lot of the flack i took throughout my childhood was for being jewish! i never pretended i wasn't and i never had a reason to pretend i was (well, i AM, but you know, i mean a believer). as for my family, i never knew until i was an adult whether or not they even believed in god. someone asked me if they did, and i didn't know the answer, so i called my folks from california (i think they were still in maryland, not yet in florida) and asked them. they were surprised that i'd called long-distance to ask! mom said "i think i do." dad said "i think i don't." they didn't have ready answers; they had to think for a moment before answering. so no, my atheism didn't alienate my family! it wasn't even a topic of interest.

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I’ve given it very little thought.

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