I know I just posted yesterday, but I feel like it's worth a follow up post. Please don't feel bad for being honest with people. You can be kind, and you can give your reasons, but if you know that you aren't going to be what they are looking for,or if you don't see something working out, there's no shame in letting that other person know. Trust me, it will free up their brains and hearts for the one they should be looking for. It sucks sometimes, and it can hurt, but being ourselves really is the only option. Agree?