She may be Afghan, but I doubt she still lives in Afghanistan.

Hello dear I am from India not just me every human stand with you and your country I know Afghanistan face violation because of extrimist larger people not with them yes I can remember early nintys it all started sach along time lost of life's humiliation by so called Islamic we never eccept them human I also believe that thay have nothing to do with relegion all abild people India is a democratic country always with afgan government and common people of Afghanistan like you

Google any country city list , if there are big cities (lets say close or more than 1 million or even 500k), this city will be like any other big city in the world.
The image of traditional repressive areas in those countries is on the small place and rural areas, and this happens even in western countries.
The young people of those places are free simply because there is no way to control so huge numbers of people, and there will be places and areas where you can virtually do anything and no one knows/cares about you.
But of course media won't show it because people living as it is expected do not generate audience...