Not totally on board with this. My standards are mine and I strive to meet them. I see no authority on my part to make you meet them too. Each one sets their own lifestream. If you believe feeding your goldfish is more important than all can labels facing out, so be it. It's your decision.
Well now you're just nit picky. I'm not going to take on just anyone to have someone in my life. If they smoke, drink heavily, are disrespectful they'll be gone in no time. Stuff like that. The stuff that matters.