I can have a relationship ended for me? Sign me up. I'm not good at getting the endings to stick!

Reasons to end? Besides emotional and physical abuse, lying and cheating, mostly just lack of love on my part is what it boils down to... Hard to love someone who doesn't treat me well.

If I ask myself, would I rather be with this person or alone, and the answer is alone, well then that's what I go for. Alone it is! Much happier.

They have all been different.

Cheating, insecurity, assuming that I am/will cheat (probably because HE would/was), being mean to my friends, kids, pets... Trying to control me (asking me to dress down, hide my hair, etc).

Cheating. Lying-which is closely related to cheating. Abuse of any kind...I tried going to therapy with my narcissistic ex(separately from my own therapist). He tried to snow the counselor. I just sat there in silence. I left him a few weeks later, knowing he was never going to change.
I’m a narcissist magnet. I’m working on it!