lol. He snarled at you? On the street? really? lol That is funny to think of:

@KingofHarts

Thanks for the videos. It was the perfect reenactment for each of us.
It wasn't my proudest moment and I wouldn't behave that way now. At the time I found it so disrespectful that he wouldn't just pass by civilly. He had even admitted he treated me horribly.

@Athena Thats understandable for being 20... and especially if the guy was less than a gentleman in the relationship, nevermind being a disrespectful, immature, asshole to you when seeing you in public after you were broken up. At least now you have what is kind of a funny story to tell. Lol...he doesn't sound like he was a pillar of brains nor wit if all he could come up with was a snarl...

@KingofHarts
Oh, it was totally worth it. Yes, the story... and I wouldn't give up the experience or bad treatment.. I learned so much from it.
He was only 21 at the time and trying to figure himself out so I'd like to think he's learned a lot since then as well.

@Athena That is a good perspective I suppose. There is something to learn from almost every experience, even the bad ones. (Speaking of things learned from bad experiences) There is a verse in the bible that quotes Jesus saying "don't throw your pearls to swine..." I am guessing you have learned of what a diamond you are and that there are guys out there that aren't capable of appreciating what makes you special and thus are just not worthy of you... Hopefully he has gained some emotional maturity since then...

@KingofHarts

That is very kind of you to say. I made some jerk moves as well in my 20s. I was never verbally abusive, like he was, but it was a quick exit for me at that point and I knew what it felt like to be treated badly. It made me stronger and more selective, so I suppose I should even thank him!

Those days are long past for me. I have relationships in which I feel appreciated and am treated well.

Thank you for your kindness.

@Bobbyzen, I think I love you

@freeofgod it’s mutual

We have a saying here someone gives intimate details of their life "Too much information !!". I think the above comes in to that category

@Moravian

I wrote that to educate men.

As a man, telling me to shut up about vaginal tears during sex is sexist, selfish and prudish. This is a problem for women of all ages.

Your message women: "Don't talk about men injuring you."

@LiterateHiker That's very considerate of you but I don't need educating thanks

@Moravian

There is no reason to shame me.

@LiterateHiker I haven't a clue what you are on about but you have a habit of relating very personal details of your life on this a public forum. I gave you a gentle hint that maybe you were giving too much information and that seems to have upset you.
I think the best thing is if I just ignore your posts from now on

@Moravian

It appears I hurt your tender sensibilities. Get over it.

On Agnostic.com, I have 156 followers. You have 7.

Does that tell you something?

First and foremost, I love your honesty.

Glad I'm not the only one who's had this problem.

This is why I'm terrified of dating younger men!

My ex-husband was the only younger guy I've dated or been with sexually. It was always painful during sex. He was very well-endo.... anyway, you get the gist. It was painful. He wanted sex all the time! I couldn't handle him. Sex became something I didn't want anymore. I guess having been terrified of having sex with him, my body would tighten more and that made matters worse. He would tear me "down there."

I know the painful feeling, Kathleen.

@SleeplessInTexas

You are not alone. Vaginal tearing during sex is a common problem for girls and women. I'm sorry you experienced that, too.

I understand your feelings. Thanks for supporting me, instead of shaming me like @Moravian did.

@LiterateHiker I'm sorry if I upset you. that was not my intention. If some retard gets his rocks of by reading about the intimate details of a persons sex life that is his problem but I am not interested in it.
He put it on the "general and hello" section. surely there is a group for that ?. I am not "selfish and prudish" as you suggest and you would have to try much harder to "hurt my tender sensibilities"

I joined the forum to have interesting debates on religion.politics, philosophy etc, not to collect followers but if that is important to you so be it.

Incidentally I am still puzzled as to how I shamed you.

@Moravian

Thanks for the apology.

Eight Ways Men Don't Realize They Are Subtly Shaming Women

[bustle.com]

@LiterateHiker an interesting article and I think I recognise most of the examples but I think you are a bit wide of the mark in calling me sexist.I made no reference to your gender and would have made the same comment to a man.

You made wild accusations about my character when you know absolutely nothing about me so I obviously touched a nerve.

As a keen hiker myself I enjoyed reading about your hiking exploits and seeing the photos of the beautiful country around you and I have great sympathy with your current injury problem as I have just been diagnosed with arthritis in my ankle which is curtailing my hiking adventures.

BUT I am not interested in the fact that one of your lovers is so fat that he can only shag you on his side and another is so brilliant that you have to shout the fact from the rooftops.

OK you may say don't read it but it's a bit like car crash TV. A sort of morbid fascination takes over and I keep reading.

Anyway that's all I have to say on the matter and I will be more selective in which posts I read in future.