Ask if she has a headache?

I don't even know where to start on this one. First of all--"humbly"? NOT---second--"ASK HIM" --just a simple I am not in the mood tonight , can we just snuggle? Or I love you but I am just not with it tonight should do it. Third--GRANTING? There are so many issues with that one that I could spend all night on it. IF you are GRANTING then you shouldn't be there to begin with. This whole reltionship picture is unhealthy and sick---an emotionally healthy adult wouldn't even be in this situation.

To be honest, I simply do not get why this even is a subject, at least in a country that is not a theocractic dictatorship: this guy is obviously a moron. So, why would you want to read what a moron writes? Worse still, why would anyone want to read what a moron writes to thousands of people on the internet?
This is a little bit like the thing with Trump: I was less surprised or shocked when he become president than I was by the fact that people listened to that moron before, he was all over the media etc. The presidency is just the necessary consequence of a disease that has been there for a much longer time.
If you just look at the internet, the media, the news channels: judge for youself how much time is spent to listen to morons (no matter if the "news" channel pretends to agree or disagree) rather than to somebody who actually knows what they are talking about.
Why? Because the currency of media, the internet and almost all business and profit making these days is attention grabbing. Attention whoring.
And for some reason, people just love to give attention to shit like this rather than listening to what some guy with a PhD and a clue of what he is talking about may have to say. Too complicated, boring and does not make a good meme.