I just wanted to give everybody a big thank you the one who commented on my dilemma I was in about the stiff decision. We talked it over and felt it would be best that we didn't do that so I just wanted to say thank you to all everybody that give me the right advice.
In my experience, persistant women will always win when they offer free sex (with cis hetero men). Cis, hetero women are typically the choosy ones, who decide if a potential lover is bringing enough to the table to be worth the bother.