watch this movie. it helps.
I watched the movie, it had some good messages but for me as non-believer it was very annoyed when Wayne focus on God's words. I don't believe in fantasy. I believe in good without God.
@Cecilia2018 don't let people's views on god make such an impact on you. it's their personification of the universe. nothing more. WE are the change agents.
My wife and have been "empty nesters" for several years and feel that process was much easier for us than for a single Mom. Now after our kids have left the house, after being here for a few days, we always comment about how sadly quiet the place becomes. But for us it is more quiet and not completely quiet. That's got to be hard for you. Our kids were both gone before we retired, which was a substantial challenge for me. For that I (eventually) got into exercise like riding a bicycle and walking quite a bit. That helped me quite a bit on several levels and I recommend it.
My oldest is 21 and living at home while working on his college degree. His little brother is 14, surly, moody, obstinate, obnoxious, etc. I am ready for both of them to be gone!
Took me couple years to work it out for self. I ended up doing a 180° change of scenery.
I'm sure this affects women more and in a very different way. As a man who has been multi-married I look at this idea and see myself as living at least 4 lives all within this one. I often think I have been alive sooo long to get to this point and have children and step-children. They all get along and they are all grown. We all live in different places today but my personal feelings are that I am feeling ancient and yet I am not ready to leave.
find a cause you are passionate about and join it. do the world a favor and join the revolution to end the wars and corruption of our govt. make history!
Thanks. Education is my passion. As an early childhood educator every single day I do the positive impact in children's lives. I'm helping our sociaty by teaching young minds the love of learning new concepts and skills that will help them to support this world.
Now jniece, How did you handle the empty nest when your adult children left your home to live an independent life? Any motherhood feelings?
@Cecilia2018 oh yeah. at first i was miserable. and ironically my son saw this and told me I need to find something else to live for! I considered joining the peace corp but didn't want to be far from my grandkids. and being a grandma is so much more fun than being a parent ever was. all the joy of motherhood and none of the stress/difficulty.