Except for his fat shaming, Bill Maher may be my spirit animal.
You can only be shamed by the words of another if you feel there is truth in what they say about you and you are ashamed of it, if you are happy and confident in yourself and they say something true about you the worst they can have happen is you initially agree with them and then grant them the right to their own opinion.
HEY FATTY
Yes I am fat
I THINK THAT IS DISGUSTING
You are free to think as you please, cheerio.
(By the way I'm fat and and reasonably happy.)