Profile questions here. There's an opportunity when filling out your profile to list things you enjoy (now titled "pleasures and vices" ). One of those choices is sex. I'm a little bit surprised at the number of people who don't list sex as something they enjoy. Embarrassment? Really don't enjoy sex? Haven't had good sex yet? Afraid someone will contact you if you say yes but not if you say no? Or vice versa. Here for community and community sex would be an orgy? Looking forward to the backlash
Did the title change to "pleasures and vices" recently or as it always been called that? Anyway, I always thought of that question as a "select your hobbies or interests" kind of section. Sex just seems like a strange topic to list as a "hobby" or an "interest" especially compared to other options you can choose.
If I went on a date and she asked what my interests or hobbies were, I wouldn't say "sex." That would just be weird and creepy; and I probably wouldn't get a second date.
I think the change in title is relatively new but it still says those are things you enjoy on the profile page.
Sex is great, but I didn't put it in my profile because it had been so long, and I didn't see any prospects on the horizon.
Go to the sexual deviants group profiles...you will be relieved.
Sex is enjoyable but should be private in my view. In the 1970's myself and friends were talking about sex and a female relative said she had nailed me on an issue of whether I had sex with a certain person because I entered that conversation and told a story like the others. I reminded her that she did not hear me give a name like the others were doing. No, you will never hear me give a name. Some people like sex to remain private.
Or not a priority in their lives?
Possible I suppose but the category was things you enjoy not priorities
@lerlo The two are not mutually exclusive.
@Spinliesel true and I guess it could have also been read "things you like more than ice cream"