Seriously considering to change my name to IamLonely or IamPsychic because I can see the future now...I will die alone.
So, think about this. A poem from my days at a military focused prep school:
"Death comes at a crawl, or comes with a pounce.
It matters not when or why.
It's not so much that you're dead that counts.
But only, how did you die?"
Here's what I think....it matters more how I lived.
@IamNobody
I agree. And, you are somebody. I for one enjoy your posts and comments.
@bigpawbullets Thanks, likewise.
Not being involved in a LTR comes to six of one and half dozen of the other.
On the up side, you get to vacation to exotic locations, hang out with your friends when ever you like and not have to deal with dirty diapers and college funds. And best of all, you get to sleep with a wide variety of women.
On the down side, you.... uh.... you........
Wait..... there is no down side.
My job used to take me around the world. I've had that and I agree, no down side at all. My current job, no travel required, it's been two years with no adventure of any kind and living in the heart of the bible belt doesn't help my case. IamDepressed at the time being. Venting here helps, can't explain why but it does.
Let's not worry about death for now . I am sure we will when will have to . Let's worry about life now .
U can change the lonely . U know that . Many orange trees w many oranges on them . One of them is for u .
Nurse your self back to your usual healthy attitude , look at mirror w pride , hey , nobody is nobody . And take self to new plans and new goals . And new orange .
Heart broken...I'll get over it. Thanks a lot, it helps. Gotta find that tree though.
@IamNobody U will find a whole forest . Heal . Nurse self . No need to forget , and how could u ? When time is right just get the " dead " in a box in the closet , make peace , big breath , and off the front door .
Start googling your first solo trip , u know October it's a great time . There has to be a live show that u want to see . Or a site . Something . Get tickets now . And make it your mark point . Your plan B .
I promise u . This will pass . And u will survive it and , and , u giving your self the gift of a new beginning . More wise . More humble even . More strong . U ll see .
One thing we know about life is everything changes eventually.
Still looking forward to that day..... Elvis has almost left the building though
You just have to find a con atheist or a religious woman that isn't explicitly religious who shares your particular set of values...
I have been looking, mostly in the wrong places apparently. Thx
We all die alone.....
Someone already said that, my response is still the same, it doesn't have to be that way.
Life is like a 24 hour bank, it is never too late for change- Lucas
You sound a bit down at present...you need to get out and about and mix with people. I recommend you join a club or hobby group...or go and volunteer with a local charity. I have made many friends over the years by doing some of these things. We all need other people in our lives to some extent, even those of us who enjoy living alone.
Thanks Marion
We all die alone.
I know what you mean but, the problem for me is that I don't want to.
@K9Kohle789 Seems like you got something of me, that's actually an accurate description. Perhaps that's why I like this place so much, because I can open up and talk about things otherwise I wouldn't??. We are complicated individuals most of the time oblivious and unaware of our own shortcomings. Thanks for your comment. All adds up to something.