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When you're openly honest with yourself and you know you're being yourself %100 of the time, no one can mess with you lol

Neenz 7 Oct 8
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Level 8

They can still try to mess with you, but you know enough not to let them get to you.

That's exactly what it is.. you become smarter and stronger than to be messed with
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Level 9

Even if you are all that. People will still snd try to mess with. Human nature

Of course that's why I'm saying they can't because.. when m you have no secrets and no fear of exposure they have no leverage over you.. if they want to try -which i'm so used to ithem lol... they're welcome to try!
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Level 9

Why the lol at the end?

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Level 9

Again, if only!!!

Most are never even honest withthing any as important as one's self!!!

Most people don't even know they're not honest with themselves.. i heard an advice by a wise man once says to his son.. don't believe your own bullshit.. that's when you stab yourself
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Level 4

Ohhh I can fuck with you. You see the problem is you let me in by giving in to your weaknesses. I don't really have to do anything. All I need do is read you and give you a few prompts then step back and watch you go. I wish it wasn't this easy.

As a newbie, welcome. I hope you enjoy Agnostic.

Thanks for the warning.

@EdEarl Well played

@RiverRick TY

You can try messing with me.. lol

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Level 8

As someone with autistic tendencies I find this not to be the case at all. Acting in socially appropriate ways and knowing what to leave out and protect seems more accurate. Throughout my life well meaning people have told me to "just be yourself" whenever my lack of fitting in is a problem for whatever reason. I have developed distaste for the phrase because when I hear it used I am being myself and what they really mean is "be comfortable" or "be like everyone else".

MsAl Level 8 Oct 9, 2019
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Sadly morsey people who tell you to be yourself ate not themselves ... almost everybody act like everybody because conformity is evil. They simply want to confirm you. I had a lot of that myself i am in every spectrum of disorder you can think of but learned to bend it to my advantage..

@Neenz I feel like it is the go to phrase for everybody who has problems fitting in. It comes off as empty and a bit offensive to me because they are actually saying ignore who you are because you're not good enough that way.

@MsAl i know it's hard to fit in... i only came to this realization a few years ago.. outs when i gave up on trying to confirm like them that's when i found my true value. Please don't let anyone affect your life's decisions.. be who you want to be and definitely enjoy being different and original
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Level 8

i always am

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Level 8

That's what we should strive for. People going to mess with you anyway.

Everybody can fi evil if they choose to... but confidence and wisdom in life teach you to be calm and able to slow people theyour place unless they have a killing weapon of course cz I'm not for weapons even for self defense
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