So - I've been thinking about getting a different motorcycle for a while.
Why ? Just because ...
I happened to stop and say hi to my long time auto mechanic - and out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to sell my present bike. Interesting, and timely coincidence !
He'll come by to try it out tomorrow. Meanwhile, my fire was lit, so I headed out to the local bike shop to see what's out there. A young salesman, 20 something, helped me. Excellent manner. Listened to what I said I wanted, was patient, and very helpful.
Turns out he too, is originally from up north, and has had some wider then normal (for his age) life experience, which showed in his maturity. We hit it off rather well - maybe too well - easy conversation for a couple hours. (no, I didn't decide on anything yet). We thoroughly enjoyed each other's company. Finally - time to go. He handed me a business card, and pointed out his personal cell he had written on the back .
How I wish I had this kind of connection with some of the folks I've met online. Damn. I found myself wishing he had another 20 or so years on him , then thinking hard on what limits I'd set for myself, and if perhaps I need to rethink them ...
What are your experiences or limits - if any, with large age gaps ?
The biggest problem I've had with much-younger women is relating to their music and their entertainment. And even though I may relate to her, her friends don't relate to me.
I have a personal comfort zone within 12 years, but that’s not to say I might could be persuaded to throw those limits to the wind. Go for it. You only live once.
Each relationship from hookup to long term is going to be unique unto itself.
Approach any and all with honesty, sincerity, and respect. If you do, you should enjoy the time.
Now for the short answer Go for it and have fun.
i have none as long as its legal and they know what they want. great sex is awesome and i will never feel guilty about having some and i will never turn down an offer. i know what i really want but still i won't turn down an offer. id like to think at 58 anyone under 30 is really out of range but thats bullshit how ever unlikely. i watch porn all the time and the young woman 18 and up are as sexuelly mature as anyone yet my last sexuel partner was 47 and wouldnt even touch my cock. if it seams right and its only once why turn it down as long as there urge and age is right. i already look back at some possibles i let go so im never doing that again. i just demand one thing whether its a quick fuck or for ever and thats honesty. go jump on that young cock if your horny.
More than being "horny", there was a instant meeting of the minds - which actually could make things complicated. I will ponder carefully.
@evergreen indeed xx