Woman knows how how to take of herself? 3rd date, she didnt have to tell you. Maybe she wanted you to tell her she no longer needed fwb?
Better that she told you early on than later. Personally, I would not continue seeing someone who was so casual about sex that she was already having a continued FWB while also meeting and dating other men, but I'm sure some other men wouldn't really mind or let that hold them back from continuing to see her if she was attractive to them and they were as casual about sex as she is. Obviously tho, in either case, one would want to proceed cautiously with her about sex and use protection.
It is certainly on odd thing to say to someone you don't know well.
@GreatNani I can picture some people to whom saying that or hearing that on the third date would be no big deal. Everybody's different.....
@TomMcGiverin True! I am.being judgemental.
It does not mean one is casual about sex just because they have a FWBs..... what if that is the only man she is having sex with and not having sex with other guys, does not make her casual about sex.... she'd be more safe with sex than serial monogamists or those in the hookup culture.
@demifeministgal I like this answer, its putting both genders on equal ground sexually. Alas, I consider myself too vulnerable for such a relationship (fwb). Maybe someday.....evolve.