Man...my gf is driving me crazy. She knows I have a family, but wants to remain constantly selfish and needy. What the fuck did I get myself into? Why? Why am I such a glutton for punishment? Maybe I should just go back to monogamy
Only if monogamy is what you want. Maybe she can't handle anything more. Most of all y'all need to sit down and really talk..which includes listening by both parties.
Well, not really. I think I just need to reassess this second relationship. She always says she doesn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship but then gets mad at me for not making time with her...but I do make plenty of time for her...especially when I have a family. My kids come first though
@sadoslim does she have kids and thereby actually understand that kids come first??
And that talk would clear up her incessant neediness and whether or not to continue with her. She's saying one thing and acting the opposite way. Always go by the actions. Actions don't lie. Hth
@ashortbeauty she doesn't have kids. But you're right...actions speak louder than words