I have heard 70 thousand women are missing from USA dead or captive some in secret and many thousands of First Nations women have disappeared from Canada.....adult males are not being raped and hidden away in such numbers ....one good thing I have to say is Atheists in prison for rape kidnapping murder one or all 3 are less than one % of prisoners making 99% of criminals are religious

It cuts the other way a little, too. When I was flying to meet my now-wife in person for the first time, my bestie was half-seriously warning me not to come back as a lampshade.

But you're right, women have to be far more careful. I have a 24 year old step daughter who lives in NYC and I have this on my mind all the time. Someone slipped a "rufie" into her drink a few years ago and she narrowly escaped disaster, so it's very real to me.