I find myself irritated by the computer generated, "open to meeting men" in my profile. I would like to substitute, "Open to engaging in a community of like minded indidivuals." I'm straight, was married twice so am certainly not adverse to men, often far from it. But my main focus here is conversation between people who think or at least have similar views to mine and who don't want to run me out of town simply because my views are not theirs. Okay, rant over.