I have two close friends that are Christians. Each of them posts Christian memes and things on their Facebook pages. When I post something Atheist and it shows up on their feed. I am bashing god and they say they are offended. I want to keep posting my atheist stuff because its who i am and im not bashing god. God isn't real.
There is no unseen, unknown function built into computers/iPhones that automatically activates when an atheist post is detected. It doesn't reach out of the screen or wherever to force anyone to view the content. Post away and realize that their reactions are irrelevant. They are, after all, irrational people who have no valid argument working for them.
Freedom of speech still applies even if your friends are bigots. Their feelings are not more important than your own and it may be time to reevaluate who deserves that "friend" title.