Talking dirty. De-stigmatizing sex talk
I don't think she necessarily wants us to "talk dirty" about sex. I think she just wants us to talk about sex. Which is something I really like to do anyway! In couples counseling, one of the most important questions to ask is: "How's your sex life." Turns out, most people jump on this opportunity to open up about it.
My view on talking dirty during sex is that I think it came about by others being told at a young age that sex was dirty. My opinion is that it never should be and I will never call you names. I also have a perfect safe word for sex games. It is called "stop."