I actually went out a few times with least two men whom I found out later were married. When I couldn't get direct answers to questions, such as where they live or where they work, I began to realize they must have something to hide, so I moved on. Also, if a man is single, he can't wait to show you his place.

All men are not "bad" but all men are bad. If you know what I mean? I would imagine the number of married men claiming single on dating sites is pushing 30%.

I found my ex-wife was on POF listing herself as divorced, in and she was seeing guys. I filed for divorce.

Had some bosses state they were single at meetings away from home.It cost me a promotion because i was not one of the boys i did not smoke drink or fool around and could not speak of my conquests. It wasn't any better among the women!

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I've dated here and there and have run into all kinds. I try to be trusting, but when people hide things that's normally the first clue. Like not sharing Facebook or photos. Or Instagram. Or they have a weirdly restricted schedule.
Eventually I learn what they are about and decide is the situation worth keeping