I am on my year and a half anniversary of the end of a 5 year relationship and I have no regrets. Run.

You've invested 6 years . See if you can compromise

First, decide what you want and your goals in life. If you don't have goals then you will be perpetually unhappy living an aimless life, even if an aimless life is your goal you must make that part of your consciousness. Second, embrace change in all aspects of your life, it is the only way to better yourself because you cannot escape or fight change. Last, toward your relationship, the French have a saying;"In every relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved"

Didn't you recently have this same problem with a female that you were in love with? Do you get attached easily? Not judging. Just curious.

I'm not in a position to say what you should do, but perhaps a question can help you clarify how you feel about it: What does marriage mean to you in the context of your relationship with him? Or, more specifically, what is it about his inability/unwillingness to remarry that troubles you?

I didn't answer the poll. You are your own person. You understand yourself best, you understand him a little. Sadly you just have to go with your gut instincts.

Can not give you sound advice. I never go back. Only time I did went back, 9 months later we returned, we ended up in a 19 years marriage... sexually we were a match. Who we kiding? We can hangout, go dancing, we even slept on same bed but despite our 3 kids... I DONT COMEBACK. Besides she already told me I broke her heart twice, next time she will kill me and I know every man murdered by his ex-spouse was warned more than once. Wishing you the Best but... if you are Not Enough for him to Risk it All again... What's in Him for You?

You have to go with your instincts. What is your gut telling you. Do the bad experiences outnumber the good. I am not a statistician but the law of averages would suggest the outcome would not be in your favor given those circumstances.