Fantastically fucked up family of origin anyone? And I don't say that as a pity party, it made me who I am...helped me selectively pick 2 designer husbands that were narcississts-thanks dad for showing me what to look for in a man, but anyway, wanted to give a shout out to a forum called outofthefog.net There are so many good insights in this forum. If you are like me, the legalism of religion, put an extra dose of fun in the disfunction in our families.
Philosophical or theological legalism have given many, me included, some fucked up shit to work through. It's one helluva fun ride though, in retrospect!
No religion required to be fucked up in my family....I don't think there is any religion in my family, that I know of....and I never realized it til this very moment. I don't know any of my family, though...but I went to a family reunion once and my impression was Wrong Turn without the cannibalism (I hope...maybe only wishful thinking...haha)