Can sex ever be "just sex"? And why?
Sex is a physical activity. It's nothing more than satisfying a physical desire. You can try to attach it to love but, if that was the case, men and women wouldn't "cheat". They'd stay faithful to one person. Some do. Some don't. I admire those who do but, they do it out of a self-imposed sense of obligation. Not because they have no desire for anyone else.
To be sure. Fucking is different than making love. Each has its place in a relationship.
I think it depends on the person - everyone is different and how they define "just sex" is probably different too. To me "just sex" means there's no connection at all and it isjust a physical act - almost like doing it with a total stranger. I, myself, can't do that.
This is how I view it
When I'm alone, yes.
(Less so when I'm in the shopping centre)