Regret, much like worry, is wasted energy. I have often told people that life doesn't have a rewind button. Those things you did, or did not do, in your past are what got you to where you are now, good or bad. You can affect the future, you live in the present, the past is over and done. And, as a non believer, there is nothing after! ? Don't waste it trying to rethink what could have been. In the long run, it might have turned out worse.
That's true. Remember that when a guy hits on you he's taking that chance. He or she wants a relationship with you. It's one of those decisions they pushed to make. We got to not be offened because we agree to this saying. Am I out of line?
Yeah! Look out ladies!! Here we come!
What about when the woman makes the advances or "hits" on a guy, she's then looked upon many times as being too aggressive, to pushy, to needy. But if one doesn't step out of their comfort zone, one will never know.
@mistymoon77. I think guys that see it this way are hung up on themselves. I never been asked verbally. I've gotten that body language and look that did the talking. I've given that look myself.
@BucketlistBob I think some are just bigger risk takers and those that have been burned or cheated on or rejected, are more guy shy about stepping forward to make the moves.
@mistymoon77. That's a real cool answer Misty. I agree too. There's so many ways of looking at it. I like your answer.