People can be tardy, that is for sure. In planning my film projects, I often had to have contingency plans for when things and people fell through. I had to rely on the surprise talents and willingness of people I didn't expect to give 200%, to make up for the others I didn't expect to give 50%. Every plan comes with surprises.

Good answer all the same. I know on a lot of dating sites I tried, people want to know everything up front, and they don't stop to think that that one thing they didn't think to ask might have made all the difference in the world. We can't always know what qualities people come with, until they just randomly surface.

Exactly right. Everyone is so busy trying to find their preconceived ideal of the perfect partner that it's impossible to make any real connection. People aren't curious about who you are, they just want to know if you can fit into their romantic mold.

Strangely enough for me, many of my goals sprang forth from curiosity. I didn't seek out what others wanted me to pursue, I just went after whatever felt right and logical to me. There is nothing wrong with not wanting or expecting what other people want or expect. That's my view on it.

And take that one day at a time slow and easy.

I agree!

Does "one day at a time" bring about more curiosity for you?