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Who do you know who was turned off AA or NA because it was too religious?

In August of 2018 in Toronto Canada the third biennial International Conference of Secular Alcoholics Anonymous will attract atheists and agnostics in recovery from addiction from around the world. The first such confernence was held in Santa Monica in 2014, Austin hosted the 2016 event and we are #OnToToronto August 24-26th for the third AA confernece (without a prayer).

Most new peer-to-peer organizations for addiction are secular - Women for Sobriety, SMART Recovery, Life Ring, for example. While there have always been outspoken atheists in AA, some communities find the meetings lay the God-thing on a little too thick. Since 1975, there have been AA meetings for athiets and agnostics, starting in Chicago, then LA, New York and now there are over 450 secular AA meetings in Canada and the USA, along with like-minded AA groups in Austrailia, Japan, South Africa and Europe.

AA has never been a temperance movement. AA doesn't care if you want to drink and AA doesn't tout, "Just say 'No' to drugs." For people who want to drink and can, that's their business; for people who want to quit but can't, that's AA's business. Just as deomographics are changing, so is AA and people who want sobriety without having to accept anyone else's beliefs nor having to deny their own, can find a place to talk about addiction and recovery without being prostelytized about turning your life over to a higher power.

The Fix article above is one of many blogs/magazine features and news items about a growing non-theistic Alcohlics Anonymous for those who want/need it.

RebellionDog 4 Apr 16
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So there is another example of a book written by men ( two guys and we know their names) that is taken literally by the followers. I never knew about AA until I came here, and then I was clean. My motivation to drop my beloved was the physical I had to pass for my immigartion visa.. For me, coming clean was my choice, just like picking up the drug was my choice,too. AA and NA work for other, though. I will not deny their effectiveness. Still like my week in hell better than a lifetime of traipsing to meetings.

no argument there; I find the white American men of privilege speaking on behalf of everyone a tad tiresome. Three women authored books that I get a lot from are:
Marya Hornbacher's Waiting: A Nonbelievers Higher Power, Rewired, by Erica Spiegelman and The Alternative 12 Steps: A Secular Guide to Recovery, Martha Cleveland and Arlys G.There's several others, Charlotte Kasl has a good one, two.

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I am recovered myself from cocaine, and used the AA program. I got over the higher power thing thru my own discovery in the following quote.
"A mind which claims it cannot stop destructive behavior yet chooses to invoke a power outside & greater than itself is a powerful mind indeed."
I don't worry about it; if vocalizing my fears to a beast named god is effective, more of it.

moxy Level 4 Apr 17, 2018

Gr8 to know you; good quote, too. THX

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There is a group called SOS (Seculars For Sobriety) but they are not very big. There is also a group called Moderation Management that does not push a Higher Power or complete abstinence.I think most people that see sobriety as "black and white" tend to see religion the same way.....on the other hand, people who see things in "shades of gray " (like me) can't stick with 100% sobriety and/or the groupthink part of AA/NA.

Well put. I had a chance to interview James Christopher, founder of SOS. He called AA "a religion in denial" which I thought, while not technically accurate, was very very funny.

In deed the answer to addiction is abstinence only. I see tribalism between the two camps and I think they ought to not see each other as the problem - untreated addiction is the problem. Let's work together instead of engaging in silly turf wars.

Honestly, there is not one decent reason why I should still be messing around with alcohol......but I do anyway. It has cause me too many problems too count.......

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I have attended a couple of meetings in the Uk with clients who wanted me to go with them (I was a 'person centred counsellor' but I actually found it to be subtly -very shame based and though I know people who have really benefitted from it I think that hte format could be tweaked to make it more user friendly for anyone -

What she said.

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I had a date with a counselor a year ago. A real date, not an appointment. She turned out to be a 'Christian' Counselor. No second date for me!!

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I attended NA with a friend who didn't care to drive at night. I nver had a problem with the "higher power" as considered it another psychic exercise people like to indulge in. I dropped out of NA because of boredom.

what about your addiction (if any)?

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I attended AA for a few months because I had to. ? I felt the exact same thing. Too much Xtianity just below the surface. When I finished my requirements, I never went back unless it was in support of another. Will be 13 years sober in October. My higher power is me. ?

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I have met many friends of "Bill" in my 60+ yrs and my Day for 19 yrs. finally went off the wagon and parted life the way he wished. He went to church every day of his life during those 19yrs but having to partake in the D-Day Invasion until the Battle of the Bulge was before the words PTSD came into existence. Never talked about it as will any combat veterans will and myself having served during the Viet Nam ordeal was on orders 3X but never made it out of Seattle Wash. Having met with many Veterans during and my after Tour of Duty made me all the more aware of what so many will never understand. My Dad never talked about it as I can always tell about a Combat Veteran but to this AA, NA, and Other Areas of Intervention are still very much needed. Pray will not, can not, as will any Psychiatrist Tell you that if you haven't walked the walk, your not even coming close to addressing the problem.
I'm going one step beyond with a personal friend who was a Drug Rehabilitator with the State. He himself was an abuser who went clean for 15+ yrs and is now taking Opiods that are prescribed to him by a Dr. to whom he has to see 2X a month for a co pay and the prescription. He is washing them down with shots and beers. What your witnessing is going to be the ultimate destruction of our whole value system and Congress is just turning their heads raking in the money.

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My ex-roommate was going to AA meetings at least 3 times a week. I went with him one or two times and the meeting felt more like church . I have yet to meet someone who is in AA that is not deeply religious. I do find that unfortunate for the atheist agnostic community that perhaps might benefit from the organization.

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