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Name something women should stop doing.

VAL3941 8 Apr 17
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Was going to say; get their identity from men or other people in their lives but it kinda already got covered and since women get told what to do a lot anyway (especially by men) maybe we shouldn't have this post?

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Stop letting creepy or harassing behaviour go unreported.
Call it early and call it loud. The perps will soon get the message.

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My response is the same as it was for the man question.

I did not post a man question !

@VAL3941 No, but you saw it, because you commented on it.

@KKGator OK! I take your word for it.

@VAL3941 Well, you asked me if I could cook, if that helps jog your memory.

@KKGator Yes it does, thank you very much !

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We are already perfect in our own way. ????.

Wholey agree in your own way.

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Dieting, which is frustrating, usually doesn't work, and the end result makes women feel they're somehow not good enough.

And then they blame the men !

Have mars bar when you want one, let other people watch your weight, life's too short not to eat a pork pie.

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Trying to dress the men in their lives.

Hey, I need all the help I can get!

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Criticising men!!

Coldo Level 8 Apr 17, 2018
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What they should stop doing and what they should stop having to do are two different things. Many of us are forced to "wear appropriate undergarments" at work. Who decided that I should have to wear a brassier? They are incredibly uncomfortable. If I were an especially large busted woman I might feel the need for support but my girls will never dangle so low as to threaten my well being and they aren't big enough to titillate ( 😉 ) anyone so why should it be determined that a bra must be worn when men are not made to suffer the pinch and pressure of those evil garments? What we should stop doing is being so damn hateful to other women. That catty shit gets old and diminishes the speaker far more than the target. Don't be afraid to be an advocate for your sisters!

Never heard women being told to wear underwear ? For myself I love them not to wear them. But thats jus me !

@VAL3941 Yup, right there in the employee handbook..."must wear appropriate undergarments". If they knew how inappropriate I can be they would simply state "cannot come to work naked". I would never dream of subjecting folks to that! 🙂

@Gatekeeper63
Do they or how do they check whether you are or not ? Can I get a job there as an underwear checker by any chance ?? Lol

@VAL3941 Maybe on my last day I'll test their system. I'm would be surprised if they even noticed. Might just make my day if they did!

@Gatekeeper63
On that day wear panties that are full of holes ? Lol

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Stop Being so hard on yourselves ladies, life is way too short to be worried what someone else may think. Especially us guys.

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  1. Undermining eachother.

  2. Being afraid of voicing disagreement

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Basing their whole lives around sprogs and giving up their own dreams, hopes, goals, and careers. If your "greatest achievement" is doing a common biological act that occurs 200,000 times a day....then what a sad, sad life. I wish women, in general, thought more of themselves.

Biology is NOT an achievement. That's like saying that taking a shit, vomiting, or masturbating is an achievement.

@SkotlandSkye It is to some people !

@SkotlandSkye have a kid might not be a great achievement. But raising one is. When my ex wife and I adopted my son he became our lives. Everything we do resolves around him. I consider giving him the best life I can a worthy aspiration.

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Women, (especially conventionally attractive women) have a tendency to raise their standards, where it concerns their romantic interests, so high, that they set themselves up for disappointment and relationship problems that they can blame men for. Not all things that men do wrong are the relationship problems women blame them for, but I've noticed setting that men up to fail is a common tendency among women. Instead, they should sometimes be asking " Was I expecting too much " or " Should this make me upset? " or " Have I got a right to demand that a man meet this expectation? ".

Because you can't reach their standards it doesn't mean they must lower them to your level.

@DUCHESSA I don't lower the standards for people. I raise the standards of everyone in any room. I wish I was bragging.

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Taking notice of celebrities.

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Shopping as a cure for boredom.

BD66 Level 8 Apr 17, 2018

As long as they shop with their money...who are you to tell them to stop?

I'm going through a divorce. My non-working soon-to-be-ex wife would go to Chicago and spend so much that the credit card companies would call me asking me if our credit cards had been stolen.

Manic-depression. Insane shopping sprees during the manic phase.

@BD66 Just taking advanrage " Before I go go "

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Talking in graphic and overly descriptive terms about gynocological problem, bowel problems, waterworks problems when I am in the room.

Why ? It is all natural. We can learn something from it !

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Nagging. While I realize not all women nag, it certainly is a common trait.

You never met my ex. Now that man could nag. Let's not over generalize, please!!!

@Keyboard-Mama I hate nagging. Full stop.

In the 2016 Australian census, women were still doing the bulk of the unpaid housework....up to 16 hrs more then their partners despite them both having full time jobs. If women nag perhaps this could be a reason. However I don't believe women nag more than me. Men have related the word to women as a way of putting them in their place and shutting them down so they don't have to hear any home truths.

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Staying with dominating lazy shovanistic men

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Apologizing for not taking on tasks/duties when asked by others who usually are shirking work or who think their lack of foresight should constitute someone else's emergency.

Example of response, "I'm sorry, I'm not able to help with x..." why aplogize? We are not obligated to help when asked & males don't normally fall into this speech pattern.

I have made a point to avoid the apology (and subsequent guilt) with, "I do not have the bandwidth to take anything extra on. Once i've cleared my plate, if you still need help, I can pitch in then." I do check with the person to see if they still need help (9x out of 10, they don't) & if they do, i will pitch in. This has not damaged my reputation as a team player but has cut down on lazy assholes asking me for anything.

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Women should stop dating men and date more hot feminine lesbians, like me.

If you were hetro, I would be in the front of the queue

Here here

You realise that you've just broken my heart don't you ?

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Trying to think for themselves . That should wind a few of you up !

Aren't you asking for the impossible ?

@VAL3941 Hope is the last thing to die ! We carry on like this and someone will have me terminated with prejudice !!

@MarcIveson By who, Mata Hari ?

@VAL3941 And look what happened to her .

@MarcIveson so far no one has comment on this conversation. Hope we get some fallout.

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This goes for everyone but I've noticed more women doing this than men. Stop taking selfies while driving!

You know how I know you're driving? Because of the reflections of the steering wheel and the highway in your giant sunglasses.

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Had to read all the comments to make sure I didn't repeat one. I wish people (mainly women) would stop being subtle when they want something. All you have to do is ask.

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Gossiping about others.

hahhahahahaha And you think men don't have this trait???

@MsDemeanour I only speak from personal observation.

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I know a lot of women smite that would be a start.

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Most stereotypes are completely biased and culturally based. Take 'nagging' for instance. Men can nag as much as women but along with the long list of female adjectives: slut, whore, cunt, feisty, frumpy, airhead, bitchy, bombshell, bossy (men are more likely to be called 'strong-minded)' bubbly, ditsy, emotional, frigid, hormonal, hysterical, illogical, irrational, pushy, shrill, sassy, they have been invented by men, to keep women subserviant. eg: It's ok for a man to be a slut but not a woman. Words like hysterical, irrational, illogical are used to discard female points of view.
According to neuroscientists using MRIs it is impossible to tell a male brain from a female.
these adjectives have evolved culturally. For millions of years women were kept subjegated because they weren't physically as strong.
You would think that with the gender divide narrowing we could embrace people as individuals instead of being so quick to judge.

Laugh my desr,, laugh. You just gave me a lecture..

ok. they should quit taking any notice of frivolous men

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