How do you respond when someone shows their religion around you?
I keep my thoughts to myself and encourage the other person's growth with their religion. The political atmosphere is making me think that this is the wrong thing to do. Like... I would rather spread doubt than help solidify the conservative powers.
If they are practicing their religion & not foisting it on me, we're good. If they try to proselytize, force me to join in, make me their pet religious project, this is when the fun & games ensue. My minor is in human resources. I know the admin regs & since i have the database links to that & the municiple code, life will become very interesting. The only thing xtians hate more than an agnostic or atheist is a witch & I will bring in all kinds of wiccan paraphernalia just for shits & giggles. Nothing that would damage my career trajectory or be overt....just enough to stir the pot & get people to leave me be.
I’m right there with you. Don’t push it in my face, and we’re fine. Bring up specifics, try to persuade me, be prepared for facts, counterpoints, and ways to make you think. But politely, because we’ll have to work together for the next several years (based on my current occupation).
I ask lots of questions...lots....did I mention lots? I love hearing other peoples' ideas and concepts. Often, this results in me getting questions, and then we are in a discourse! Rarely goes wrong, actually. Worst case scenario: the condescending 'I will pray for you'...to that, I generally respond, "I have some witch (wiccan, though for religious folk, wiccan doesn't supply the imagery that 'witch' does) friends, so I will have them pray for you, too." Just to see their asshat-ness and raise...
Since usually I’m at work I say nothing but I’m screaming on the inside. They haven’t come to the door here but should that happen I think I’ll call on that recent meme that’s been going around that said, “Adam and Eve had 3 sons, let that sink in, take all the time you need”, can I get you some ice water?
Internally, I realize at that moment - there’s not very far to go with the relationship/ friendship. Inevitably, we’re going to seriously clash.. Often times it’s a test on their part, tossing out something they feel empowered to do, then ‘judge’ my reaction. Pretty good at giving little away in a moment like that (lifetime of experience), their probe is not lost on me, and I’ll look to taper off the exchange…
Feel free to let your disbelief be known, though … it’s what some of us have been fighting a lifetime to make safe
Depends on the person, their religion and the circumstance. Today a man at work, (that I quite like as a friend), talked about God and I just said I'm a non believer. We continued chatted and a bit later something else came up and I said, yes, but I don't believe in God. He's a nice guy and he wasn't trying to convert me or anything, he even said he thinks that organized religion is the anti christ! So...interesting discussion.
Gently work with him to think and question why. Talk about philosophy - try the sceptics and John Locke.
@sofabeast I don't feel it's my role to question other people's religions. Perhaps one day he'll ask me why I'm a non believer, at which stage I'll be happy to tell him. Do you think it's important we address it with believers?
Yes it is, in my opinion. I dated a lass many years ago, and everything kept coming back to god.
On the upside, I don't we would have lasted anyway.
Yes, well this gentleman's married and I guess his wife feels the same way as him, (believing in God), I wouldn't want to be the one that changes his mind and causes issues for him at home. If he was a love interest I'd probably address it. Perhaps my ideas about this will change in the future, I'll see.
If it's a stranger, e.g., someone wishing me a merry christmas, I just say thank you. They mean no harm. Or, even when they say, "Have a blessed day," I just say thank you. Honestly, I don't have the energy to go into a huge discussion, and I know they're trying to be nice in their own way.
Smite them!
Purge the non-heretics! Burn them with unholy promethium!
I can always get behind a good smiting! Though shalt be afflicted with a nasty case of smittens!