So, I've been gone awhile tending to my professional life while my personal life continues to deteriorate, so I remember coming here to vent and how much it helped in the past.
Venting is my "cup of tea" but for many people that's not true, if you're one of them save yourself and move on to the next post.
So one of the engineers I work with and one of our companies primary technical resources and I were having a conversation and I said "The oddest thing to me is that many of the anti-vaxers are claiming that vaccine mandates violate their body autonomy yet the majority of them are also anti abortion and therefore deny the body autonomy of women, which is hypocritical and they can't have it both ways." and he blew the fuck up. I hadn't realized he is full blown born again Christian nationalist convinced the election was stolen and actively refuses to have himself or his family vaccinated.
He's also stressed that he'll have to leave the company and is looking for work elsewhere at a smaller company probably for a lot less pay. He literally screamed, "Abortion will stop even if it requires killing people" which triggered me. I was screaming at him about the time I took a family friend to an abortion clinic because her baby had attached to her fallopian tube and bringing the baby to term would kill both of them. There was an abortion protest at the clinic and we were called murderers, she was already sick with grief because her and her husband were actively trying to start a family, the baby was wanted, loved even, and now medical necessity forced her to make a hard choice, but the only choice. Abortion is a medical necessity. The fool said that medical expediency was less than 3% of the cause of abortions demonstrating that in an argument 90% of the time someone will pull a random number clearly biased toward their opinion out of their ass. However when I was at the clinic the nurse informed me that at their clinic 85% of their procedures were to address medical issues, I honestly don't know state or national averages, but the protesters picked that clinic despite the self reported 85% medical necessity.
This drama queen is bringing all the negativity on himself intentionally even if he isn't honest with himself about it. Vaccinations are the hill they have decided to die on, the upside is they get to be Christian Martyrs by enduring self inflicted "persecution" which proves their great faith, even if it kills them.
I want to complain to HR, but our company is currently being divested from our parent corporation as soon as they can find a buyer, so no corporate resources are being reinvested back into our part of the company. Losing this loser would put us under, like me he has an essential technical skill that can't be readily replaced.
What kills me is he's a nice humorous seemingly kind hearted and insightful engineer who's great to work with in a team environment.
I'm trying to make peace and hope it goes away, but honestly I resent him and I'll allow myself a pressure relief valve on this board where I'll from here on refer to him as "Captain Covid" as it turns out he and his family recovered from Covid and still will not get vaccinated, they had to take their kids out of a Christian Charter school because the school required vaccinations.
The more he suffers the more it proves him right in his brainwashed mind.
Your last sentence really says it all. I keep meeting people just like him - at one point I would try to present the logical, science based side of things.....not anymore. I've come to realize that they have crawled up on that cross and absolutely LOVE it up there....now I just smile and say "Have a nice day". P.S. Keep venting - it really does help!!
Good to have you back. Thanks for venting. Most sorry your personal life is currently on a negative vector. Hope you can implement a beneficial course correction.
Your trumpian co-worker, sounds like he is lost and has slipped too far down the rabbit hole to claw his way out. Think your work environment will be less maddening when he is gone. Hope your company survives the changing process. A friend (computer programmer with his PHD in Physics from Stanford) has transitioned away from two different companies when the companies he worked for were outsourced over seas.
Having covid is not an effective protective method to not become infected again so I'd say there is a good chance your trumpster will have another go at covid. Rather sure you already know that.
We had one of those antivaxers (a teacher) at our school but she resigned months ago rather then get the shot or get a weekly covid test. Think she's now working at a convince store somewhere. Two other trumpians were let go at the end of last year and we have only one left (the school secretary) who a week ago suddenly disappeared she is supposed to be back next week.
Ectopic pregnancy. A local theocrat tried to push her "personhood" law. After asking a YMCA friend (medical doctor) what he thought of the personhood law (Measure #1) he said it was terrible. He and other physicians in his clinic hired a lawyer to interpret the law and If a woman were to present with an ectopic pregnancy, all he could do was to tell her there was no treatment and to tell her to call your loved ones, and watch her die. So much for right to life. I was active in making sure Measure #1 failed. Like you I was (and when the need rises, am) also very vocal in correcting the lies or mistakes of anti-women's right to keep their own lifer. They really bother me.
Hope things get better.
Hey, me too! I haven't signed in for ages. I miss my support. Miss my ppl!!
I work with a few of those! Captain covid and captain christian, LMAO, at least one per workplace. Even if I don't engage, I still get an earful of options
Welcome back Kim
Life is not easy and there is much one has to put up with just to be here. Personally, I am trying to get along with people I have no idea what their politics are or is. I have tried to assure myself that I do not care what they are as long as they treat me well. I shop at a market that I have a feeling is republican in view. But they treat me well, always ask how I am doing and try to be helpful and courteous.They have helped me many times and I drive out of my way to go there. I do so because they are good people in their interactions with me and others.
I listen to the news and it is hard not to see others that have different views than I as being total asswipes, I wish they did not have the power in politics that they have. But for me that is what is happening in another place with people I do not know. If there is a civil war, it is going to be a mess as who will be shooting at who? How do we find the enemy when we do not know who they are or where they are? Until this time I will try to get along with my neighbor, if shooting starts then the rules change and I have no idea what I will do.
You are in a situation that seems like it is going to disintegrate no matter what happens. My first question would be what is the possibility of going into business by yourself? Companies know who you are and what you are capable of. Of course, I would not recommend that as all of a sudden your days will get short in time not spent working, and the work load increases even though the pay may not. I wish you luck, and I am waiting to win the lottery.
It is cathartic and helps me too when I write about the amount of stupid self righteous sub-humans there are. We need abortion for those who have medical issues. And of course those who want to conceive and that is there right to choose. It is to bad we can't figure out how to abort these types men and women who feel a woman should never get an abortion, no matter what? Raped by a sicko father, it's "Gods plan." Only 11 years old to bad. "Gods plan." Right to lifers are beyond disgusting and there are not enough words in the dictionary to describe how I feel about them. Even if it was a million times thicker there is not enough space in the universe to write how I feel about these pukes. I think many of us in the world found out just how many dumb-ass stupid there is out there in the last 20 months. They are easy to spot. They wear an invisible face mask but you can see it plain as day in a mandatory setting. If you dig deep enough people will show their true colors and it is a dark swamp of slime. Oh hell, I could write all day about anti-vaxxers and sub-humans. The Dunning-Kruger Effect is a plague and here is some more proof. Here is a stupid screen shot from a post I wrote on SM. Numbers don't lie.
This is just one story of many I would find them print them out and leave them lying around.
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