For The Dads/Moms With Daughters
My girls handled their own dating life. I kept a close eye on them through HS and let them take some bumps. I made sure they knew how to prevent unintended consequences. They had a few hard lessons, but have made good choices as adults.
 HippieChick58
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 27, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    HippieChick58
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 27, 2018                                            
                                        I had a friend who lived up in the mountains and he let his daughter's bfs know he also had a backhoe and a shotgun.
 HippieChick58
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 27, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    HippieChick58
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 27, 2018                                            
                                        When a daughter gets to adult stage it is time for her to set her own path. Dads or moms should not be be lifelong baby sitters. My daughter has made lots of mistakes and she is living with them (I did as well so I have no room to talk). One thing a parent should not do is to take sides when their kids are having marital problems. My first 2 relationships were interfered with by the parents and guess what, I came out ahead and the daughters are still suffering.
 JackPedigo
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    JackPedigo
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Rules for dating my daughter:-
Treat her with dignity and respect as an equal.
 Uncorrugated
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Uncorrugated
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        I like your answer so much better, I see a number of misogynistic replies here.
Thank you.
That's me, I need like 10,000 fliers to post them all over Jacksonville, FL. I got 2 of those!
 GipsyOfNewSpain
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    GipsyOfNewSpain
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        ...how'd you know..?  So add to that last line, "or death" 
 Varn
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Varn
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        ...actually, I’d be nowhere near as demanding with regard to the job stuff … and a lot of that’s up to my daughters’ own judgement..  But I did tell one to let any creeps know ‘her dad would kill you,’ ‘and he’d probably get away with it’   She liked that ~
My daughter always told her dates did you know my dad was in the Marines.
 Marine
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Marine
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        I think what my daughters say to them is... "My Dad wrote the book on Cheating and he got caught by My Mom, Fear My Mom, he still do whatever she tell him to do".