The extremes of on-line dating or wherever you wanna call it is bewildering

It's like can go through 100's of failures,most of them scammers ,& few will webcam

& Then every now and then when they do ,they want cam sex right away lol

And it's like, it's so awkward..it doesn't really arouse me for long , sometimes a little at first ,but then it actually turns me off and I'm all confused why I'm turned off lol .. i think it's cause it's rushed most likely , cause they're not bad looking!wicked hot some are

Just caught off guard i guess...

i like being able to see one is real by webcaming,can tell if it's a recording easily
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But why more often than not i get webcaming from women just ready to play lol and I'm like i don't even know her lol

Then so many just won't webcam, usually cause they're freaking scammers

This is so hard..

I am not rushing,i like to take time to know if we're right and good for one another..and seeing one on webcam just to be sure they're who they say they are is enough for me ,then maybe after knowing one another,could Play on cam lol, doesn't matter that much,but do like knowing one is who they say!