I'm new to the site and I'm looking to meet someone in the Phoenix area
Hi, Abett, and welcome to the website!
You will gain points and help people get to know you if you write your profile and answer the profile questions since that's the first place many women look when they see a new member.
Then you can comment on posts and write you own posts to gain even more points, and when you reach level two, you can private message people.
Check out the FAQ link at the bottom of the page, or the home page to find out what you can do at different levels, and how to find members near you.