I get distant a lot. Nothing to do with anger though.
Hmmm... i get mad and pissed and angry. Turning that cheek is for insecure people. I saw a wild ass woman slapping her kid in a resturaunt. The second time i got up and said what the hells wrong with you. That pissed off my wife but it stopped the child from being abused. People got a habit of finding your weaknesses and coming after you or thinking you aint going to do nothing. Stand up for yourself and give yourself some self respect. Dont lay there and take it. Ill walk away when i had it coming. I will also apologise.
I'm the type that if you hurt me enough, you just no longer exist for me. I will no longer be mad, or hurt or worried, you are just no more.
My now ex started hanging out at bars. I hung out with myself.