If a man says you're hot, that's not a compliment. He should say you're beautiful. You're a woman... you're not a weather report.
I've told the woman I've been dating they were beautiful and they are but both hated it when i said it
They hated it because you really didnt know them. My wife is hot, sexy, yummy, beautiful, whoa! And perfect. I can say all the above because I am with her and I love her. I know how she is... to a point. I've never gotten her mad... so I don't know where that could go. But I'm committed to her. She knows that.