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It would just be nice to be with someone that did not want to change you.

Walter1968 6 Dec 15
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Caring for each other is so nice & easy.

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I would like for someone to accept me for who I am appreciate that we are different and not to to change me. I have no desire to change others...well let me rephrase that! I would like all the assholes of the world to magically stop! In a one on one setting however, I would like to think I would accept people for themelves..and they would do the same for me.

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a relationship is a compromise meaning you must change to a degree but just stay faithful to who you are.

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You like the way you are strongly enough, that you don't want someone to change who you are. And that's something to be proud of. Don't worry, someone will come along!

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Change is good sometimes. Growth is a constant. So to say you don’t want to be changed, you are screwing yourself out of positive things.

However, to have someone try to make you into someone else, by trying to change you the way they want, is unhealthy. Get rid of them, before you do change—by becoming bitter.

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Thats what I am looking for in a relationship. I don't want to change anyone either.

many have tried

I have met a wonderful man here who accepts me for who I am and vica versa

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I agree, there is no such thing as a perfect match. Relationships are hard work. It does take compromise, but not sacrifice.

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Unfortunately, people do not change much. However, being with another often does and should require an amount of compromise which can result in a change. After all change is not always bad.

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