@Hassan155logic Just pointing out the headwinds you've got there in Sweden. If I were a Swedish girl I would RUN from any guy I thought was an Aghan. Here is my prediction. The cultural conflict now going on in Europe -- and especially in Sweden -- is so bad that the only solution will be for a homegrown Nazi party to be elected in Sweden. If you are lucky you will just be deported. It could come down to a bloody civil war, one far worse for Afghans than what you left in Afghanistan. And this isn't defamation. I'm just telling you the situation you are dealing with. Also, I live in the United States. We still have freedom of speech here. About half of the people here are politically correct morons, but not all of us are. My advise is to get out of Sweden -- and Europe -- while you still can. The rest of the people on this site are either idiots who don't have a clue what's going on in Sweden or they are just blowing smoke up your ass and trying to show off what good liberals they are.

@skeptic99 my husband is Afghan and he’s the best man I’ve ever known. And fwiw, a person can be both Swedish and Muslim.

@FreethoughtKaty Let's give it some time, Katy, and see where Sweden goes in another twenty or thirty years. Right now the liberals in Sweden are getting their noses rubbed real good in Islamic poop. There will be a reaction. I'm predicting civil war along ethnic divisions. I will wager the USA will find itself in similar circumstances, probably by mid-century.

@skeptic99 what’s interesting is that you seem to think that if a minority group gains power, they will be as oppressive as they were oppressed. I don’t see evidence to support that, except possibly in extraordinary circumstances, such as in Rwanda. But, Sweden is no Rwanda and neither is America. You know people don’t stop being human when you’ve decided they are different from you.

@FreethoughtKaty Sweden is different than Rwanda because Swedes are different than Rwandans. Likewise, Swedes are different from Jews, Arabs, Iranians and Afghans. People produce their own cultures. Western European peoples will never accept Islam, at least not a harsh fundamentalist version of it that is typical throughout the Middle East. Our own history and culture are quite different. We can no more embrace orthodox Islam than we can return to witch burning. We believe in freedom of speech, enlightened thinking and are generally tolerant. This last quality maybe a deadly flaw in our character. We shall see. I think Europeans are still pagans at heart. We enjoy our bodies and revel in our own beauty. We certainly will not accept wearing burkas or returning to a religion that preaches the sinfulness of humanity. Swedes are descendants of the Vikings. If they feel threatened, they will rebel and fight. Sweden's problem right now is that women are running the government. And Islam has built its religion upon fanatical INTOLERANCE. I see no way Europeans will accept it.

@skeptic99 You are really out there. Are you some kind of incel?

@FreethoughtKaty You have the sophistication of a kindergarten graduate.

@Hassan155logic I know Sundsvall. Learning Swedish will open more doors...not only to girls, but to friends. If you take Swedish at the röda Korset, you might meet more people and learn more about culture. Get a gym medlemskap, go into the nature on Sunday. Once you have a group of Swedish friends, they will understand your lack of culture and help you assimilate as well as help you with your Swedish. You are on here so I assume you are not a believer. Swedes will appreciate that as well, as they tend to the secular.