What about life motivates you? What keeps you moving forward every day? What do you feel your purpose in life?
As someone who struggles with self worth from a difficult childhood, I long ago decided to live, not for myself, but to be there for others. While my self image is much improved, I still find that to be a reasonable reason to exist. I think we need to expand our compassion, as a race, if we hope to survive long term.
Very well put. My have had a similar life. I will definitely take this into consideration in my life. Thanks for sharing. It helps
My wife and my two little girls...everything else is secondary...
That sir is awesome! Never take them for granted! Maybe some day I will have the same. Working on myself until the next opportunity comes
@Tutankhamun That's exactly what I did...enjoy.
Life is short, so enjoy it while you are in good spirits and physiclally able to. After 22 yrs in the Army, 3 in the Sheriffs Dept and 20 in the Post Office, I retired. Mentally is the biggest thing for most people. I still get up early and practice Tai Chi, Yoga or do 45 minutes on the eliptical to start the day. Which ever one I do helps start the day.
Thank you for your service. I have great respect for the military. I often regret that I didn't enlist when I was younger. Went to school in NC, relatively close to Fort Bragg. Many of my friends and roommates were ROTC. I would love to have that sense of community, discipline, and having a set purpose. Lately I have even gone as far as thinking about joining the Air Force Reserve as an officer. I've heard they actively recruit engineers. Time and motivation will tell
I hope to outlive my cat so she won't be orphaned and pay off the $15k or so I still owe my house
These two little ones are my grandchildren. My heart now walks around outside my body. My purpose in life is to do what I can to make sure they grow up safe and secure. My secondary purpose is to keep my job so I can continue life as it is; pay the bills and health insurance. My final purpose is to create, and get through my stacks of projects before I die. Which means I can't die for about 99 more years. I don't think my retirement savings are going to last that long.
With these thorny existential questions, I usually resort to Jane Austen.
"For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbors, and laugh at them in our turn?”
― Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice
Music, marijuana, life’s assured brevity in the grand scheme of things, the fact that it is promised to no one, and that it can’t possibly get much worse than it’s already been. Morbid curiousity perhaps, but I’m ready for something good to finally happen and I’ve got no choice but to bank on the fact that it can and will if I keep looking. Even if all I have is 30-40 more years of loneliness it’d be a shame to waste them. Time to breathe and exist of my own volition is its own reward. Sometimes the door prize and the grand prize are the same thing; it’s the journey not the destination n all that jazz.
Unless you’ve entered a very specific competition, there’s really not much of a definitive end point, conclusion or reward to anything beyond the thing itself. Enjoy every sandwich, dance, and celebrate the process of every human connection you make or creative thing you manage to add to. Take pride in developing useful or entertaining skills and kill it for the sake of killin it. I’ll sing to the spiders in my stairwell like I’m auditioning for The Voice. Fuck the purpose. You’ve got to dig it to dig it, you dig? Doesn’t get much better than those moments of pure presence in any process. If there’s any purpose it’s simply to grow together and share those moments while we still can.
I struggle, and I mean really struggle with this very question lately. I can't seem to come up with a satisfactory answer. Besides needing to work to pay bills, I don't have a strong desire to get up and face the world each day. I'm hoping this phase will have an end to it soon.
@Tutankhamun excruciating is a good word for it. I wasn't always like this. I have had depression and anxiety for many years, but the isolation and antisocial tendencies have surfaced in the last few years. They are growing stronger, making it harder to even attempt to make friends, let alone maintain strong, healthy friendships.
I like to discover something new every day, whether about the world or myself.
That's a good answer. Think i'll try that myself
The people i love motivate me, the fact that i live in a country without war, famine or extreme poverty, the fact that i have the ability to help others. My purpose is to find truth and live by truth.
Living by truth is important to me as well. Even when that truth is a hard pill to swallow. The people I love don't necessarily like me, mostly. Sounds weird I know but it is what it is.
To provide a good living for my family and enjoy what life I have left on this planet as I’m not under any delusion that I’m going to a better place when my life is over.
Pshhhh. When I die i'm coming back as a cosmic entity and explore the universe at my leisure
There are many things. Work, house, yard, hobbies, grandkids, my daughter, friends, riding my Harley, camping, my music. So much. Guess I really don't think about it a lot, it just comes natural. Being healthy is important so I try to stay active the best I can.
Learning, interacting with people, Helping others, enjoying the Geezer Guys once a week, time with my wonderful family, a long brisk walk. A purpose is to save our enviornment.
All great reasons! I hope to have that for myself one day!
In reverse: i don't have a purpose in life, i just am; i don't always move forward and; joy and sorrow, love and anger, injustice and creativity motivate me. ?
Interesting viewpoint. Thanks for sharing!
Fear. Fear that I'll fall behind on bills, my children will starve, etc.
All good reasons for sure
I really have zero motivation. I do what I got to do but I can't say I feel motivated in a positive manner. I normally am motivated out of fear. Generally speaking, I think there's a lot of people who feel the way I do. I work to keep food on the table and a roof over my head.
I have slight motivation to return to a normal way of life pre surgery days. When hiking wasn't so painful. I would like for my granddaughter to experience the beauty of nature in the unbeaten path.
Sometimes sheer bloody-mindedness. But sometimes just curiosity and delight in the small things.
Nice! Good point
The desire to paint a great work of art.
When you do please share! I am an artist as well
Overall I am motivated to better myself and others through education and emotional bonding, but the what drives me the most is helping others.
I hear you man
I am motivated to see and be in Nature and experience my time and energy. There are lots of things I want to do before I transition, so I am busy planning and doing the things I will do again and planning things I haven't done yet. My list of hobbies keeps growing because I keep seeing things to do. For example, rock painting; why on EARTH would anybody paint rocks, well Im gonna find out for me. It is simply the experience. Might make for a good story later on ?
As for my purpose, I don't know why I have life here and I may never know. The reason I am here is one of my father's sperm met my mom's egg and that is FACT. haha