What would it take for someone to make an incredible connection with you?
Some remarkable qualities would be:
Honestly, it's been so long that I don't even know anymore. Now that's sad and I didnt even realize it.
From IamNobody to @Agirlhasnoname, no worries...it may feel like a sad thing (it actually does ? ) but most definitely you are not alone !!!!!!....as a minimum there is two of us ????
Enjoying doing things together.... If she is going to cook then I want to be part of the journey, not just eat the meal... don't tell me to stay away because I may make a mess. By the same token, if I am fixing my car then it would be nice if she would say, I don't know anything about fixing the car but I can hand you over the wrench while we talk about nothing in particular and I won't tell you go away because the garage is my territory..... Also, enjoy simple things like walking together holding hands, watching whatever on TV even when sometimes either one of us won't care about the show but still will enjoy the company..... If we can do those things together and both feel the same way then we are perfect for each other. That is exactly what I never had in more than 20 years. Still married, not together. She is NOT a bad person by any means, we are just different and those things are not easy to see when young and sexy....that ship sailed away a while ago.....
At this point in my life, I just really want someone who WANTS to be with me. Who is interested in me and my life. I don't need money or flowers or anything like that. Just make a priority in your life, like maybe top 5. I love stupid little gestures that let me know he's thinking about me. Sneak a note in my purse or put it on my mirror. Text me saying "thinking about you." Open my car door. Take an interest in what I am into rather than expect me to adapt to what you like.
@Faithless1 deal breaker
Openness, honesty, a quirky and sometimes NSFW sense of humor, the willingness to have hours-long conversations about anything and everything, a loathing of the state of the nation, a loving attitude, compassion, a positive self image.
Am I asking for too much? ?
@SueZ I'm actually hoping for more than one, but one would be good, too.