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What are those little things you do in a relationship?

Michael64 7 June 1
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I am in the believe, the woman for me will appreciate me giving her things money can't buy. I had seen it with my own eyes. I am not for every woman and every woman is not for me!

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Taking out the trash. That means a lot

@OroLee

I was being flippant. But it's a sign someone loves you when they do the horrible chores.

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I do dishes, laundry, clean house, and buy flowers just for the Hell of it. I pay compliments. I'm a good listener most of the time, and l make them laugh, maybe the best thing l do.

So you're that man!

@Ellatynemouth l am that man. As far as l am concerned a household is a shared experience. I don't cook. If you cook it seems only fair l do the dishes. Becuase of my job l am going to be home during the day, l work fewer hours l might as well clean and do laundry. It just makes sense to me.

@Sticks48

It makes perfect sense. Who wouldn't want to meet a man like you? No one.

@Ellatynemouth Why would that be?

@Sticks48

Some of the women I know complain about their man leaving dirty clothes around the house, leaving a mess in the kitchen etc etc

@Ellatynemouth l thought you meant no one would want a man like me, which may be true. ☺

@Sticks48

No! The opposite! Ha ha.

@Ellatynemouth Whew! ☺

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Listening and keeping my mouth appropriately shut at the right time.

Ha ha! That's funny.

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Listening is a biggie. Anticipating the needs and wishes of the one I love. Thinking up delightful surprises. Writing love notes and stashing them where they'll be found later. Paying compliments, praising acts of thoughtfulness, showing gratitude, and never belittling the one I love.

Deb57 Level 8 June 1, 2018
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When their first child was born, Mom gave Dad his college class ring. After Dad died at age 51, my older sister, Lynne, had Dad's ring made into a pendant. She wears it every day.

On the day our daughter was born, I gave Terry a beautiful gold ring with sensuous curves. The ring was handmade by a jewelry artist who grew up on the Sacramento River, CA. Since Terry is an artist, I knew he would love the gold curves.

Terry still wears the ring every day. It was meaningful to carry on a family tradition.

@XxDARKNEXUSxX
Thank you.

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listening, reciprocity(giving it and expecting it in return)

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I can write things that made a woman cry of emotion. They will remember me for that and for my Fuck-Offs that I own them to my pleasure. I never promised them a Rose Garden but a Rose in their Pillow. A Poem at Midnight turned into a Song by 3 AM. And Insane lovemaking at 5 AM. No candles needed just This Guy.

OK.

@XxDARKNEXUSxX I said I was romantic until death says otherwise. Those are my "little things". But they come with a price to be collected later.... or not. Is the Flow produced by the Muse and I am grateful enough if that is all it is.

@XxDARKNEXUSxX You see, you should had listened more to the horny friend in your youth that talked about nothing else. Like you mentioned I see no gain in any biz transaction with a prostitute. Only gain is for her pimp. I always be "the hunter" that refuses to buy meat in the supermarket. The thrill of figuring out what can get me on the bed of such a wonderful creature! I had my share to the point that if never again, I will survive with my memories... victories and defeats. Being able still to be inspired by a stranger I had never met face to face is still something that brings satisfaction to my face and don't cost me nothing and she will know it... in such materialistic world we live in. Right now... Helen Mirren is my "Darling". But if Eva Green ever calls me, I will drop anything I am doing! We got/get old. We simply modify our flightplan but what we don't do is turn around, there is always a destination!

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..after 30 years of marriage, it took a follow-up r/s to finally get some credit for the stuff my wife had apparently taken for granted… “I’ve never had anyone show as much concern for me” was a comment that resonated.. A fuckin caregiver ..what don’t I do 😕

Varn Level 8 June 1, 2018

@XxDARKNEXUSxX I likely wasn’t clear above ..mine was an unappreciative wife (never a compliment), followed by an appreciative lover..

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No idea but it must be great cus ive been married 10 years and my wife is amazing. She seems happy too!

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Backscratching with my long nails with my last ex four years ago.

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Make myself a cup of tea lol

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