I have a question for those who identify and female and are on dating sites.
Do you often ghost people who you have started chatting with? If so, I would to like to know why.
I've been told it's because; the reaction the chance of men having an extreme reaction when being turn down too big.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.If the person is at all reasonable, I will tell them I’m not interested. This often reveals that they truly aren’t reasonable after all, and I dodged a bullet.
Rejection is actually an excellent test for toxicity. Or even just saying I need to slow down and take some time....I tend to attract narcissists so it’s self-preservation.
CarolinaGirl60
Level 8
June 8, 2018
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Men do that as well. I politely state that I'm not interested.
Wildgreens
Level 8
June 8, 2018
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It's not just women doing do. Every person I've chat with here quit without preamble. It's the way of the net, I guess.
If I've been chatting and suddenly stop, 99% of the time, it means my real life has gotten chaotic and busy, making online time a luxury that I cannot afford. Once things settle, I typically check back in. Often, I've TOLD the person before hand that I have travel or plans coming up and might be out of touch, but they often seem to forget.
Zster
Level 8
June 1, 2018
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You are right.
I've been verbally abused and ridiculed whenever I've politely turned a man down. Really nasty stuff.
It feels like walking on egg shells.
Ellatynemouth
Level 8
June 1, 2018
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I’ve had the same thing happen. No walking on eggshells; I just block and disappear.
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