I do try but I fail often - People I am meeting these days in the reality of life seem so different to the people I knew post war and in the 60's. Our political and social life is very different now and I do fear for us - Political leaders are failing us big time. in teh U.K we have the hugest 'them and us' problem ever and it isnt racial.
I try to have compassion for them as people, but that doesn't mean necessarily liking the things they do or say. Sometimes it's to keep them separate.