You did the right thing. Just breath and try to relax. He can't take anything away from you like that

I agree with the consensus here, so I won’t repeat it... I’ll just say, be strong, keep your dignity and integrity intact, and one cannot be emotionally blackmailed or extorted if one does not engage in it . Honestly, you have nothing to prove ... to him, I mean... any chance someone like that gets to try to get you to engage is a full on victory for them, to get you to “defend yourself”... no need to defend yourself from bull^}%%}. I know sometimes that’s easier said than done, and I wish you all the best, and I hope you realize that blocking it , going to your boss proactively, is certainly a testament to your capacity to disengage. All the best to you ... feel free to message me ...

I suppose hiring some goons to rough the man-child up is not a good Idea.

Hi Sarahroo29,

I read your request for advice and the one problem is that none of us are law enforcement or attorneys. The best thing you can do is contact your local DA. Which in Colorado Springs is Dan May's office. I would also avoid telling your boss, unless your "ex" or one of his cronies approaches her. Do not alarm her about something that may not happen. If anyone approaches your boss you can take legal actions against them. Good luck, and remember friendly advice is no substitute for professional counsel. Dan May's website is ...
[4thjudicialda.com]

Get a lawyer ASAP

Learn how to shoot.

Oh please, the guy is quite off the rails of common sense. That's what lesbians arte waiting for, dating advice from seperated husbands.,
My advice: never talk to this guy again, in any form of communicatuion.

Go forward before he gets a chance to. Report him to your boss.

Violence and counter manipulative actions are not worth the advice people are giving. Go directly to your boss and tell her what is going on and the threat that you live under and she will understand and even console you herself. Honesty is always the best policy.

Talk with your boss and stop talking to the dbag. I also recommend getting mace and learning how to throw a punch but my friends tell me I can be a bit aggressive lol

What is concerning me is how problematic relationships are still to the forefront of your life.You have every right to walk a tightrope over a very deep valley, you are more likely to fall and hurt yourself than if you walked into your local shopping mall.

I would mention at work that you are having serious problems with him, and that he is unstable. You don't need to go into details, but if they are broadly aware of the situation then if he does try anything they'll see him for what he is and it won't reflect badly on you.

Talk to your boss, tell what happened and exactly what he's threatening you with..also Save the messages...and bring charges against him.

I suggest you get a restraining order with a warning from the judge to keep away from your work

I think you have much more leverage on the dirty low life scum. I also think he's just trying to press your buttons and full of shit. also, there is not, whether true or false anything wrong with having feelings as you haven't said anything. it's just hearsay. I mean if it came to it you could say to your boss that it's not true and why would you believe a sex offender who is blackmailing you.

If anything I think she likes me. Or used to, that way.

The best defense is a good offense. be tough, don't back down, make sure he knows you won't. hang in there you can do it.

restraining order?

Never allow anyone to blackmail you. Cover your ass, tell your boss about his threats.
Refuse to succumb to his manipulations. Don't get scared, get mad. Anger can be a
fantastic motivator. And as so many others have suggested, get that restraining order.
Forewarned is fore-armed. That said, try not to be alone until you're sure he's been neutralized. Be around other people as much as you can. Don't let him get you alone, no matter what he says. Good luck, keep us posted. Stay safe.

She is an exhaustive ? If so think she will handle with tack. You might mention there is a breakup disagreement and you are getting flack.

can you get a restraining order?

My boss messaged me and said I can't get fired for him calling. I left out what he would say. It's all good now.

Thank you all for great advice and help!

Thank you all for the great advice and help.